Hold My Drink: How to Make the Best Wedding Reception Dance Playlist

Hold My Drink: How to Make the Best Wedding Reception Dance Playlist

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Think back to some of the best times you've had at weddings, and I'll bet many of them were “hold my drink” situations during the reception. You know, the ones-you hear that song start and, suddenly, makeup and blowout be damned, the dance floor becomes your stage.

“Those three-minute connections are some of the most memorable moments from a wedding,” says Shanon Cook, a Spotify Trends expert, former entertainment correspondent for CNN, and longtime music journalist. Cook recently got married herself, so we decided to capitalize on her musical expertise and recent personal experience by having her curate the ultimate wedding-reception playlist.

Now while this baby had me making full use of the wheels on my rolly chair, the Spotify team and I also recognize this isn't a one-set-fits-all solution. Every couple's wedding-day soundtrack will, and should, be different. There are over 3.5 million wedding-related playlists on Spotify. And that's the benefit of premeditated tunes: They're a thrifty substitute for a DJ or band, and they're personalized-all the way down to that obscure remix that forever cemented the friendship between you and your maid of honor.

Thus, in addition to jukeboxing, I asked Cook to give us guidance on how to choose your inclusions and get people movin'! (Remember-research says your attendees are likely way stoked to dance.)

“You really have to think about your guests,” she says. “At a wedding, you have a very broad list-from your grandparents to guests as young as two. You have to think about music that is not only appropriate for that varied audience but also what they're going to like and get into. That's very difficult to achieve.”

But don't fret your set yet! She's going to get you there with just five tips:

1. Recognize Sometimes It Is a Popularity Contest

For your first selections, let's throw back to high school by looking at the superlatives and then judging the hell out of them. (Kidding.) Remember when Spotify figured out which songs were most often added to users' wedding playlists? What is it about these that make them such great additions?

Check out the top 10 again:

  1. “Thinking Out Loud,” by Ed Sheeran
  2. “Marry You,” by Bruno Mars
  3. “All of Me,” by John Legend
  4. “Uptown Funk,” by Mark Ronson, featuring Bruno Mars
  5. “I Wanna Dance with Somebody (Who Loves Me),” by Whitney Houston
  6. “Don't Stop Believin',” by Journey
  7. “Crazy in Love,” by Beyoncé, featuring Jay Z
  8. “A Thousand Years,” by Christina Perri
  9. “I'm Yours,” by Jason Mraz
  10. “Hey Ya!” by OutKast

“Nothing in this list surprises me,” says Cook. “You've got representation of up-tempo fun songs with 'Hey Ya!' and 'Uptown Funk.' Some of these songs are very romantic with an appropriate message for a wedding like 'I'm Yours' or 'Marry You.' Then you've got John Legend's song 'All of Me' that's been popular since its release because Legend wrote that song about his fiancée, Chrissy Teigen, and it's all about how much he adores her. What bride wouldn't like to echo that sentiment at her wedding?” For our playlist, Cook found this remix with a sick dance beat that doesn't detract from the song's emotional quality.

Even if you feel like some songs, such as Pharrell's “Happy” or JT's “Can't Stop the Feeling,” are overplayed on the radio, they can take on new life at a wedding. “They're still great additions because most of your guests will have heard them and they're such feel-good tracks,” says Cook. “They encourage your guests to move or sing, and they're also great for younger kids.”

And, don't underestimate including some freshman picks in your lineup. What's currently owning the Top 40 charts? Play songs people are listening to and talking about right now. (See Cook's choices like “Mi Gente," Justin Bieber's “Friends,” or Maroon 5's collab with SZA.)

2. Embrace the Crossover

Pop. Country. Rock. Hip-hop. What do all these genres have in common-besides a hit song featuring Nelly? They can all feel at home on a reception playlist. “I think anything goes at weddings," says Cook. “Most of the time, you've got a mix of genres. It's all about what makes people happy and puts them in the mood to dance. It makes sense that you're going to have the full spectrum.” While you and your sorority sisters may have an entire choreographed routine to “Crazy in Love,” maybe your mom and her pals have an equivalent with ABBA's “Dancing Queen.” (By the way, we recommend springing for Spotify premium to download your songs beforehand and avoid duking it out with spotty Wi-Fi. God forbid a lost connection throw off your 8-count!)

So go ahead and put Frank Sinatra, Notorious B.I.G., and Dolly Parton in a room together; you'll wonder why you've never done it before.

3. Serenade Your Guests… Even If-Especially If-It's Weird

If your wedding day is simultaneously the only time your kooky aunt is willing to fly across the country and the only time she's game to juju on that beat, you've got to make the most of it.

“You can't expect every song to cater to absolutely everybody,” says Cook. “What you can do is include specific songs for specific guests, especially if they're traveling really far distances to come to your wedding. That is such a big commitment and such a loving thing for them to do. It's nice to sprinkle in one or two songs they especially would appreciate.”

You can easily reach out beforehand to poll guests on what songs they'd like to hear, or include a song-suggestion space on the RSVP card. “Hopefully, you'll like their choices,” says Cook with a laugh, “because you guys have to be happy and they have to keep people in the mood to dance.”

And are there certain songs that really encourage people to let their freak flags fly?

“Songs that include extreme emotion are great songs for weddings,” says Cook, specifically mentioning Bonnie Tyler's “Total Eclipse of the Heart” and “Hey Ya,” by Outkast. “We played 'Hey Ya' at our wedding. That's just a fun, outrageous song that helps people let their hair down.”

Cook also recommends up-tempo songs that appeal across generations. “If your mom really loves Cyndi Lauper's 'Girls Just Want to Have Fun' and that's a song that's going to get her excited, why not put it in there?” she says. “It's a song for many people. My four-year-old daughter loves that song, and my own mom knows that song.”

4. Mind Your Sh*t List

We've already established the power music has over people's emotions, so be careful! If a song, or the bad memory (read: ex-boyfriend) behind a song has made it onto your list of names “in red underlined,” keep it off your playlist.

“Even if it's a song that everybody loves,” says Cook, “if you have some negative association with it, you don't want to hear it at your wedding-where you should be as happy as can be.”

Similarly, if there's a song that's going to upset someone else at your wedding, probably best to leave it off too.

Or, maybe your sh*t list just includes songs that make you feel crappy or actually say the word shit.

“You don't want sad songs, and you don't want songs with perhaps overly offensive lyrics,” says Cook, who switched out explicit tracks here for their radio-friendly versions-a good idea if you've invited the entirety of the tee-ball team you coach on weekends. Better to be safe, and sometimes it's more fun to yell obscenities over the censored silence anyway.

5. Save the First Dance for Everyone

At this point in your process, we don't doubt you've stockpiled your playlist with gems of jams, but only one belongs at the top of your list chronologically. "It's always good to kick off the dance-floor portion of your wedding with the right tone,” says Cook. “That tone is, it's party time! Encourage people to dance.” The first song must be a beacon, its bright boppiness guiding your guests away from their hesitations and insecurities toward a warm, safe place to dab, drop, and dougie all night long. That's why this playlist begins with Walk the Moon's “Shut Up and Dance." Speaking of, I've just made it to Whitney on the playlist. Hold my drink…

See more: The Ultimate Wedding After-Party Playlist

The vows have been uttered, the speeches delivered, and the reception is about to get underway. There's just one thing left to do-oh yes, it's time to dance.В

Curating the perfect wedding reception playlist is something of an art form. It takes taste, grace, and forward planning. You want to make sure that every second of this celebration is accounted for. From pop-tastic tunes to classic tracks, you need to make sure that the roster has something for every single wedding guest. It's a tall order.В

Struggling to get started? You might be lacking the inspiration you so desperately need. Never fear. We have an idea (or 50!) that will get your imaginative juices flowing. Featuring some of the cheesiest music known to the world, along with a few sing-along songs, here's the perfect wedding reception playlist. Read it. Copy it. Use it.В В

Cheesy Dance SongsВ

Getting your guests to the dance floor will take some seriously cheesy songs. When the formalities are out of the way, you'll need to make sure that your wedding party starts with a bang. Here's some inspiration to help you choose some excellent tunes.
1. “Grease Megamix,” by John Travolta ft. Olivia Newton-John

2. “I Want You Back,” byВ The Jackson FiveВ

3. “Twist and Shout,” byВ The BeatlesВ

4. “Dancing Queen,” byВ ABBAВ

5. “I Wanna Dance With Somebody,” byВ Whitney HoustonВ

6. “Single Ladies (Put a Ring On It),” by Beyonce

7. “Cha Cha Slide,” by DJ Casper

8. “YMCA,” byВ The Village PeopleВ

9. “Macarena,” by Los del Río

10. “Footloose,” by Kenny Loggins

Rock ClassicsВ

Ready to rock? We're not talking obscure bands that nobody's ever heard of. Instead, this section is dedicated to the classic rock tunes. The moment the opening chords play, you'll need your air guitars at the ready. These tracks are certain to liven things up.
11. “Bat Out of Hell,” byВ MeatloafВ

12. “Crazy Little Thing Called Love,” by QueenВ

13. “Close to Me,” by The Cure

14. “Sweet Home Alabama,” by Lynyrd Skynyrd

15. “More Than a Feeling,” by Boston

16. “Walk This Way,” byВ AerosmithВ

17. “Brown Eyed Girl,” by Van Morrison

18. “Sweet Child 'O Mine,” by Guns 'N' RosesВ

19. “Magic Carpet Ride,” by Steppenwolf

20. “Livin' On A Prayer,” by Bon Jovi

'90s and '00s Pop TunesВ

Next, let's take a trip back in time using the magic of music. It's an undisputed fact that the 1990s and 2000s were the golden years of pop. For this section of the evening, you can get your guests feeling super nostalgic as they dance along to some throwback favorites.
21. “Hot in Here,” by Nelly

22. “Bye Bye Bye,” by *NSNYC

23. “TiK ToK,” by Ke$ha

24. “Hey Ya!” by OutKast

25. “All Star,” by Smash Mouth

26. “Thong Song,” by Sisqo

27. “Oops!… I Did It Again,” by Britney Spears

28. “Umbrella,” by Rihanna

29. “Say My Name,” byВ Destiny's ChildВ

30. “Hollaback Girl,” by Gwen Stefani

Sing-Along SongsВ

As the evening hits its climax, your guests will be ready to bust out some tunes. It's the perfect time to switch the music to the sing-along songs. We're talking the tracks that everyone knows by heart. From “Sweet Caroline” to “Red, Red Wine,” you can't go wrong.
31. “Sweet Caroline,” byВ Neil DiamondВ

32. “Don't Stop Believin',” by Journey

33. “Tubthumping,” by Chumbawamba

34. “Africa,” by Toto

35. “Love Shack,” by The B52s

36. “Ice Ice Baby,” by Vanilla Ice

37. “Sweet Home Alabama,” by Lynyrd Skynyrd

38. “American Pie,” by Don McLean

39. “Red Red Wine,” by UB40

40. “New York, New York,” by Frank Sinatra​

Romantic Slow SongsВ

Before the night is out, it's time to take things down a notch and get all romantic. After all, this event is all about love. Needless to say, the following songs make ideal first dances, but you can also sprinkle them throughout your wedding playlist, too.
41. “Unchained Melody,” by the Righteous Brothers

42. “I Don't Want To Miss A Thing,” by Aerosmith

43. “You're Beautiful,” by James Blunt

44. “Thinking Out Loud," by Ed Sheeran

45. “Lady In Red,” by Chris De Burgh

46. “Can't Help Falling In Love,” by Elvis PresleyВ

47. “Your Song,” by Elton John

48. "You're Still The One," by Shania Twain

49. “Halo,” by Beyonce

50. "Make You Feel My Love," by Adele

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